Friday, March 9, 2012

Former infertiles

A subject was brought up in one of the forums that I go to.. and it just made me realize... I think sometimes.. former infertiles can be the most insensitive bunch.
I really hope I don't end up as one.

Let me clarify.

It just seems like SOME of them just completely forget what they went through. OR they remember, but feel the need to for some reason belittle others still struggling that are going through difficult and negative emotions.

For instance in this thread... it was started by someone who struggled and was upset when a friend who was still struggling deleted her FB account b/c she didn't want to see pregnancy announcements and whatnot any longer.
This former infertile just could not wrap her mind around it b/c SHE never did it when SHE was struggling herself.

And another who is all butthurt b/c a friend distanced herself from her when she got pregnant. And how it's SO rude b/c SHE never did that when SHE was struggling.

I mean... really?? Come on. It's great that they didn't do whatever, but to rant about someone else that does? I can understand being hurt by it if it's a friend or family member. No one wants to lose touch with someone, but to just plain not understand WHY just completely baffles me, especially when they KNOW how hard it is.

I hope that makes sense.

We all have to do what feels right to us. If it's putting on a happy face when you're hurting inside, then do it. If it's distancing yourself, do it. Who is to say what is right and wrong in such a situation, and I would've thought that people who struggled themselves would understand that, but I guess not.

WHEW! Crisis averted

So I talked to DH last night and thank goodness. He cleared it up a bit.
Just mentioned that they watched something on the Illuminati and he was just mentioning it to me. He has his own beliefs in it all (which is more of an interest and what if), but he's not one that believes all of the extra crazy stuff about it, like that Lady Gaga, Beyonce or whoever is part of it all etc etc.
Thank goodness!!! lol

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Conspiracy Theories p2

Ok.... I looked up a few things on the Illuminati thing. And while interesting... holy shit it is so full of crap it's not even funny.
I mean come on.... these illuminati conspiracy theorists think they're using Lady Gaga as some sort of subliminal messenger to get their Satanic mesage out there. WTF??
And of course this is all posted by a religious bunch who think the Illuminati are a bunch of satanists.
And just to be clear before anyone gets offended.... I am NOT attacking religion at all. The majority of people that are religious are good level headed folks....
These conspiracy nuts ARE NOT.
I mean just seeing symobolism where there isn't any.
Like the Lady Gaga thing about how her name is easy to say so that has to mean something. A photo of her wearing an outfit that has butterflies on it... THAT means something.
Or some logo with a lightning bolt going through her on it also means something too.
I love reading conspiracy stuff, but you just have to draw the line somewhere, ya know? Some people just take this crap WAY too far in to crazytown.

And lets say for arguement's sake that there is this secret society that wants to take over the world, they're all Devil worshipers and they're putting subliminal messages in shit.
Ya know what? It's not fucking working so why should anyone give a shit.
Me seeing Lady Gaga wearing butterflies or a lightning bolt, or covering an eye isn't going to cause me to suddenly become a devil worshiper that goes out and kills babies and I'm pretty sure it's not going to for the rest of the SANE population.

UGH, I'm seriously going to have to smack some sense back in to DH.

Conspiracy Theories

Anyone know someone that is in to all of that stuff?
I admit that the little that I've read or heard sounds interesting and it's fun to read about, but I wouldn't say I'm way in to it or anything.

Well.. apparently DH's friends that he hangs out with on Weds are REALLY in to all of this crap and they're starting to get DH in to it as well.
Now I don't mind it at all, if he wants to believe in whatever, then that's fine, but geezus! They are really REALLY in to all of it.
They are convinced that within 5 years that society as we know it will be gone.. and turned to chaos. Just think of what happened in the movie Contagion... and that's what they expect to happen x10.
Just the complete fall of our government, social order, everything.
It's pretty scary to think about.
I think DH wants to start stock piling supplies. I'm actually totally fine with that, I think everyone should in case of any kind of emergency... but I just hope he doesn't become as paranoid as his friends.

Like last night, I jokingly asked him when he got home if they started talking about conspiracy stuff again.
He just laughed it off as he got ready for bed. Then... he started going on about the Illuminati and how they're using famous folk to get their Satanic messages across or some shit. Uh... WTF? I know he got all of that crap from his friends, but hearing it coming from his mouth was a bit of a shock. I'm gonna have to read in to it so I can talk some sense in to his head rofl.

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Stupid ass drivers!!!

I've been in such a pissy mood lately and I MUST rant about this.

I don't drive often (thank goodness. Have you seen gas prices lately? YIKES).... but when I do, there is at least 1 terrible driver out there that just seems to always be right in front of you just to ruin your mood.

Oh, there was that person today.
Some asshat in a pickup truck going 40..... FORTY on the highway where the speed limit is 60. And 40 was the fastest this douchenozzle went... he actually got down to frickin 30mph at one point. Why??? I have no fucking idea. His truck looked pretty new and in good shape. The weather was gorgeous out. Not a lot of traffic, but this dipshit still figured it would be a good idea to get on the damn highway and go 20 under the speed limit.
What... the... fuck!!!
If you don't want to go fast... take the damn back roads you MORON or how about learning how to fucking drive??

And UGH, I actually dread when I have to go out at around 10am. That's when all of the old ass drivers come out and most can't drive for shit too! Most are slow as hell and lookie-loos that want to look at every damn thing except for the road in front of them.

OR how about the death on wheels bunch. Ya know, the idiots you see with their iphones up to their faces so they can read a text or text back to someone... not paying attention to the road and swirving all over the place.
Yeah, that's always fun to come across... especially when they're swirving in to your lane as you try to safely pass their dumbass.
I really frickin wish they would make that shit illegal here already. I get SO pissed off when I see that b/c they could end up killing someone b/c they're too stupid and impatient to get off their damn phone for a second.